The life I lived….was living life without borders. I believe life is what you make of it, turning lemons into lemonade over and over again, until you find wisdom to turn lemons into strategic weapons to fight back. What do I mean by all this? I’m simply saying fight for your space, for your existence not to be confined and defined by those who don’t really know what you are about. One must realize that we are not fighting people in wars, but we are fighting spirits. Spirits of oppression, spirits of destruction, spirits of delay, spirits of lack, and spirits of giving up. Today, I can proudly say, “Throw lemons at me, and you will never know what hit you.” You will never know who made me first and made you last. You will never know victory. Life challenges teach one to be a fighter, and my advice to you is to fight wisely. Choose your battles, the ones that are worth your time and energy.
Living life without borders means you must not compromise who you are because you do not need a passport to live your life the best you can. Your life is not a digital platform that needs you to log in to get access. You are accessible to yourself twenty-four seven, I mean all the time, and this is your power, and you must never give it away because of a relationship, because of a job, because of lack and not even for your family if need be. I’m simply saying being true to yourself is very important. Being true to yourself means accepting realities around you. Being true to yourself means personal development, which means you must be better than yesterday. One way or the other, you must acquire new skills that aid your life forward. Never be comfortable with where you are for too long because someone is going to catch up and eventually replace you.
Living the life I lived meant freedom against judgments and being asked, “Are you still not married? Are you still doing that art of yours that is not paying you?”.
I guess the saying is true ” The one who laughs last, laughs the best”
I am Sistaboss – Mosadi Kakapa